The Bridezilla

Came across this term on wikepedia:

'A bridezilla (a neologistic portmanteau of bride and Godzilla) is a difficult, unpleasant, perfectionist bride.'

Where's my husband? RAWR!!!!

I thought wow, that term really fits the description of someone I know. Someone who's going to be a bride soon enough (Take a guess).

Since starting on the wedding preparations from more than 3 months ago till now and still on going, we faced a lot of arguments. There's a side of Agnes that became predominant in the preparations, Agnes wanted the whole wedding to be just perfect in every single detail. I can understand the way she feels that it's her wedding day and she's only going to get married once, it's the biggest day of her life and so on. I'm sure there's a lot of pressure that she's facing. It is also said that the bride have to look her prettiest on the day she's getting married, so much expectations.

Man and woman will have different approach to the whole wedding idea, woman wants everything to look beautiful, the colours have to match, the flowers have to be of a similar shade, and the list just goes on. For guys, we just want to enjoy our wedding day, we wouldn't care less about the minute details, we just want to get it done with and move on to the wedding night.

Well I couldn't care less what flowers would be on display, while these things stresses her out. Everything has to be according to her expectations and if somethings not done right, then like the Japanese giant mutant lizard, Godzilla, she'll have to find some hapless victim to chew on. Most of the time the victim will be me. I always kena complain never do enough for the preparations and have to listen to her go mental on which vendors to hire and that's unpleasant.

I kept telling her to relax and take it easy, we'll just settle things little by little as they come along, even our Pastor who's doing our pre marital counselling told her to just let go on some things and that the wedding day should be a day where we both enjoy it. But she said she wants everything to be perfect right down to the initialised napkins.

Being my laid back self, I'd just sit back, relax and enjoy while she fusses about everything else, knowing that the wedding will be well taken care of.

Let's hope this doesn't occur on the wedding day

Now I'm wondering do all woman behave like this before they get married, did you feel stressed up and do you feel the pressure that everything has to be perfect? How do you feel on the actual day itself? Did you feel relieved after the big day is over?
Those of you who are already married maybe can share with your experiences, might be able to pick up something.